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01 Sep 2003

Love And Such

Monday  •  09:38 AM  •  171 words

You know, it’s actually easier to lose someone you love to death than to lose them to someone else because you can continue loving a dead person without feeling hurt while if you lose someone you love to someone else, you can’t even do so much as thinking of that person without feeling like your heart was being cut into slices with a razor.

I’ve always been the one to put my self completely into loving someone, so when the person I love don’t love me back or as much, I get hurt. However, I think I’ve found a defense mechanism that could work to prevent me from getting hurt. I just shouldn’t worry too much about whether the person I love love me back or not. If they don’t reciprocate then it’s their loss, right? I know I’d feel very lucky if I had someone loving me to the extent that I’m capable of loving someone.

(In case you’re wondering, yes, I am on a drug. Damn this stupid ‘flu.)

Quacks on Love And Such

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deadmanjones  •  Sep 1  •  10:44 PM

Well, there’s a theory that apathy is worse than hatred because at least hatred is an emotional response. I think the metaphysical poets started that one. But they’re all dead, and I can’t see it myself. I don’t know of many wars that started because of apathy.

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Rori  •  Sep 2  •  07:09 AM

I have been thinking about you so much. I just recently moved to another state and during this time, I am missing my mom so much. I think that is the hardest thing, no, one of the hardest things, about missing my mom, is that when new stuff happens, I will always want to just call her, and have her tell me things will be okay.

Anyway, I am thinking of you a lot and sending loving thoughts your way because I know what you are going through.

LoTeK  •  Sep 2  •  08:43 AM

I know how you feel. I am in love with my wife, and she told me recently that she has never felt that way about me. It doesn’t stop me from loving her, but I can’t help but feel…angry?…frustrated?…sad? But life, as they say, goes on. :)

Shelle  •  Oct 1  •  09:33 AM

To respond to the Love and Such.. I agree with you but the hardest thing is loving someone and they not love you back.…especially when it’s your best friend.. i sit here and pretend everythings ok …but everytime he walks out that door it breaks my heart that he knows my feelings but he’ll never understand how deep they really are …being a friend to him is a constant reminder i cant be with him..

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